Cluster B, labels and traits

I fully support people using labels to help themselves understand behaviors and learn healthy and constructive behaviors.
Using labels like Narcissist, BiPolar or Borderline and extremely dangerous labels to throw around.
People are know adding the word traits after, thinking that makes it better, it doesn’t

It seams that a lot people are using Cluster B labels or traits to absolve themselves of responsibility’s.
If someone hurts you or does something you don’t understand or agree with, Cluster B is not the reason.

There’s a reason only a doctor can diagnose these mental illness
Would you want your doctor telling you if your electrical panel is safe to use?

I’m no expert but I can relate to this, most people feel that they are a little ADHD, but that is lightyears away from actually having ADHD.